This Technique is not a magical one or some Guru Technique. Method is developed according to the Psychological effects of Women due to the treatments they get from Men. These facts are proven and if you dig deep you can find relatable facts in famous relationship Books also.
Method works for a Girl who is a friend of Yours and whom you might have a crush on or even on Your Girlfriend or Wife when your relationship is not on good terms and need mending.
First You must understand few things and according to those facts you’ll be able to find the way to get the words “I’m willing” from Your Crush or Beloved.
The common mistake both men and women do is they think the Opposite sex is also like them. When approaching or when interacting they try to please other party by imagining what would make me happy and continue with those things on him/her. The main thing we must understand is the difference in thoughts and feelings of Men and Women.
Man values Power, Competency, Endurance and Success. They find pride in their achievement. But Women, they are different from Men,
- Woman values Love, Communication, Feelings and Relationships.
If You want to make a Girl/Woman happy and make her seek You, Communication is the Key factor.
Even in a normal conversation Girls tend to Complain or show their dissatisfaction on a particular thing. Whether You are just friends or in a relationship this is true. In those moments what Boys/Men understand is She is in a problem and if I want to make her happy I must fix her problem.
That thought is not to be blamed because Men usually seek company of another or advice when they are in a problem and they need the solution to it. But Girls are different and their thoughts and feelings. They seek the company of another when they need to be cherished, when they need an ear to listen to them or when they want share her feelings.
- Woman’s Happiness & pride defined through her feelings and the Quality of her relationships.
So in that moment, Just like ‘John Gray’ author of the famous relationship book ‘ Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus’ claims ” If You put on Your ‘Fix-It’ hat and become ‘Mr Fix-It’, You are going to make it ruined.
When she says ” this semester is so hard, I don’t even know How to keep up” or ” there is so much to do, I rarely have time for myself” If your replies are like, ” If it is so hard, Why don’t you drop few modules” or ” If it is that tiring, Why don’t you Quit your job and find some thing else you like” You gonna make her more annoyed.
Actually these aren’t grave problems to her just temporary hurdles, and she doesn’t even seek solutions, what she seek is a way to share her feelings and someone to listen to her. She doesn’t need our solutions. She needs to stress-out. In those situations, if your responses can be, ” Yea, that is true, But I think you are gonna make it through I have faith in You” or “Humph, you must be tired after all that work” you are going to nail it. Not only her annoyed mood disappear but also she feels a sense of reassured. She is gonna trust you more.
- When a Girl/Woman is upset by offering solutions and becoming ‘Mr Fix-It’ you are gonna invalidate her feelings.
It is not that A Woman rejects advices of Mr Fix-It, she greatly appreciates those words as long as they doesn’t come out when she is upset. What we should remember is when a woman is upset and talks or nags about problems, rather than offering solutions we must focus on listening because she needs to be heard. When that necessity is satisfied, she is not only open for your Mr Fix-It but also shower you with her love for staying by her side.
- When You are able to fulfill a Woman’s need to be heard, You gain not only her love but also her respect.
Understanding the differences makes it easier to acknowledge our partners’ sensitivities and be more supportive.
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So, if you are chasing after a girl or mending Your relationship with your Girlfriend/Wife understand this logic and try to stick with the procedure. The things will really work out the way You want.
